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Vessel

Vessel:

Vessel, my first thought, an inexhaustible vessel, Panchali’s, which fed the Pandvas and her guest unconditionally.

Well, The blog is not on the magical Akshay Patra.. It is about the Vessel, on a philosophical angle.👀

In this influenced world, body, the vessel is highly overvalued than soul. We tend to judge people based on the first look than the first word. Adding on to it, we are moving to generation where a healthier body is defined by zero size i.e., Man is judged by his six pack and woman by her slimmer waist.

If you ask me is it truly important, my thought would be, it is important to be comfortable than being classy.  The outlook should not overpower the soul. On a run, one is not remembered for their outlook. Beyond the outlook, the presence of person matters! When I say presence, it is not the physical presence. Value added by one to the situation!  The outlook should not be a showstopper to get know a person! I would rather prefer a person to have stronger soul than outlook. A strong willing power is what make someone to get the right outlook.

However, Outlook is major influential factor in every step of life. In today’s life, outlook based on situation is much more important than presence. Sometimes, if the body is not decorated as expected, you might feel embarrassed and allow yourself being talk of town... Example, you cannot be in bridal dress for the official meetings or vice versa.. 

Indeed, it is nicer thing to have the right outlook. Beggar outlook cannot be justified even when the soul is strong. It is indeed important to have right outlook as it is major influence factor but, I would say do not overpower it! It must go hand in hand

The mirror reflection of the outlook should be defined by oneself, not by others. Having said that, even I suffered  due to insecurity in my outlook most of my lifetime at least I got to know myself or remember myself now. It is not that I got to realize myself. I was moved by my surroundings to the nutshell of insecurities. If something is repeatedly heard most often, mind starts believing it. It takes a strong willpower again to believe in you than believe others.

To summarize, Body should be sculpted one by themselves based on their own creativity!! There is nothing like faking it till you make it. It must be really made by the soul. Carry yourself with the outlook that makes you comfortable and brings respect! Rest is all about the presence and a smile!

Saritha Subramanian

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