Marriage, the system.

Marriage,the system

Marriages are made in heaven! Indeed….. Right!!  Today’s blog is inspired  on the reviews from my last blog . ..:-)

Whenever we take the Marriage topic, the most conversation circles around to family, responsibilities and women empowerment!! Interesting, what Marriage has to do with women empowerment? Question that pops out immediately to my mind is that, is Marriage system making women weaker??  Or the expectation out of women in married life is so complicated that makes her weaker?

Well, the expectations I could think of:

• Changing from carefree girl to responsible
• Basic cooking skills and change the taste buds..
• Lifestyle.
• Voice out but not so loud..
• Etc

Well, I say all these there are few who raises out saying , Saritha, you have not upgraded yourself.. we are 90 kids. .Not 80 Kids.. the generation changed.. But the point is that , the 90k kids are guided by 80 kids. And 80 kids believes that making a family is in women’s responsibilities with that, they give the highest position available to men, so that they do not have to do anything.. Take rest and have fun.. 😊 lol..

Also , these 80’s & 90’s generation suffer major problem is that , women are coached on empowerment & voice out. But  forget to coach men on the change same line.. it is become one way communication…Hence, even though there is voice, it is not received correctly!

Now comes to 2k kids, the change makers , who are expected to make a change in the system. .but not sure whether it is going to make a family with new meaning… or will it be disaster.. ? We need to wait n see..

Indeed, Marriage is tough system to define what is right and wrong. Because the perception changes !.. Like “beauty is in the eye of beholder”, similarly “Marriage is in hand of two souls.”. The way of leading should be mutual.

That’s take on today’s blog , Meet you in next blog

Saritha. Subramanian