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 Sacrifice

 Truly a big word! 

Google definition: The act of giving up something that you want to keep especially in order to get or do something else or to help someone. Yay. Correct definition! One takes choice to give up something to get something else. It is completely individual choice or sometimes situation. Situation is a big culprit or individual choice??


As soon as we hear this word Sacrifice, everyone remembers Mother. the great living god who is known for sacrificing or tailored to do sacrifice? Nature has given the ability for women to carry the child in her womb and makes her responsibility for the well bringing. Is it nature mistake that it gave women special abilities and got the right hormones to make her to feel responsibilities for the children? It is truly sacrifice or nature’s mistakes?

Men and women, sacrifices their life’s desires equally in the complete life journey. Women are expected to move out of her birth house and expected to settle in other house. Men are expected to earn and sacrifices the life in earning for lifetime.

Nature has given the sacrificing quality equally. But we human beings, started comparing who sacrifices is bigger than others? That where the problem starts. No-one is trained to embrace each other sacrifices and understand.! Sacrifice is a Sacrifice. There is no comparison! Whether it is physical or mental pain!

Apart from nature, some situation demands to make decision. Either one decide to win over by losing it or makes other to lose it.. Example, you wanted to purse a course and decided go by parents’ choice! it is absolutely individual choice .. there is no path for self -pity. It is clear picture that one does not know to raise voice i.e. not a smart one! An individual incapability or helpless situation should not be called as sacrifice. it is called self-pity and it is dangerous. Sort of addiction to get into comfort zone.

 Few leaders set wrong example by fasting and call it as sacrifice! It is not sacrifice. It is just a strategy .. Emotional play game as we do it in the name of god. Try to please god by sacrificing by quitting non-veg or by fasting every other day... I am sure god will be knowing the strategy that’s why he is in the form of stone/picture! Uhmmm..

 

A person who knows to sacrifice is always a strong person. 😊. It just that, we misunderstand them as helpless!

Well, this is my take on today’s blog. Absolutely my perspective! 😊

Meet you in next blog

 

-Saritha Subramanian

 

 

 

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